1 - Do you pretend to listen to other people?
Never
|| Rarely
|| Frequently
|| Always
2 - Do you happen to think about something else while someone is talking to you?
Never
|| Rarely
|| Frequently
|| Always
3 - Do you happen to do other things while someone is talking to you?
Never
|| Rarely
|| Frequently
||
Always
4 - When you do not agree with someone else's opinion, do you interrupt him before his speech is finished?
Always
|| Frequently
|| Rarely
|| Never
5 - When you're not 100% sure about the meaning of your interlocutor's words, do you ask for clarifications?
Always
|| Frequently
|| Rarely
|| Never
6 - Do people ever tell you "You don't understand what I'm saying..."?
Never
|| Rarely
|| Frequently
||
Always
7 - Do you happen not to understand exactly what your interlocutor is saying?
Always
|| Frequently
|| Rarely
|| Never
8 - Do you ever feel like you know what people are about to say?
Never
|| Rarely
|| Frequently
||
Always
9 - While someone is talking to you, do you happen to mentally complete his speech with your own words?
Never
|| Rarely
|| Frequently
||
Always
10 - Do you happen to ignore other people's opinions when they contrast with your ideas?
Never
|| Rarely
|| Frequently
||
Always
11 - Do you calibrate your answers on what your interlocutor is saying, or do you tend to give fixed, general responses?
I calibrate my answers
|| I give general responses
|| Both things
12 - Do you happen to misunderstand your interlocutor's words?
Never
|| Rarely
|| Frequently
||
Always
13 - Do you learn new things from conversations with others?
Never
|| Rarely
|| Frequently
||
Always
14 - In you opinion, can what we say be interpreted in different ways by different people?
Yes
|| No
|| I wouldn't know
15 - When you talk to someone, do you notice his facial expressions, gestures and posture?
Never
|| Rarely
|| Frequently
||
Always
16 - When you're about to say something, do you ask yourself what effect your words will have on your interlocutor?
Always
|| Frequently
|| Rarely
|| Never
17 - When you have to tell something important to a person, do you chose the best place and time to do it?
Never
|| Rarely
|| Frequently
||
Always
18 - When someone uses a term that you don't exactly know, do you look it up in the vocabulary?
Never
|| Rarely
|| Frequently
|| Always
19 - During a conversation do you ensure that your interlocutor understands you?
Always
|| Frequently
|| Rarely
|| Never
20 - Do you happen to mentally rephrase what someone has just told you?
Always
|| Frequently
|| Rarely
|| Never